Saturday, September 20, 2008

Cheusak and such

I meant to write this post last weekend since that is when Cheusak was, but I seem to be very behind on my blogs and updates these days...

Last weekend was the Cheusak Holiday and it was somewhat interesting. Here in Korea Cheusak seems to be the largest holiday that they have. Even larger than Christmas. A few weeks before Cheusak all the stores start putting out gift sets. These are gift sets ranging anywhere from toothpaste packages to spam packages. The spam packages were the funniest I thought. It would be a large package with maybe six cans of spam and a bottle of cooking oil, haha! The Koreans love it though! So right before the Cheusak holiday everyone goes crazy with shopping, cooking and preparing. I went into a coffee shop near my school to buy a simple cup of coffee and had to wait 20 minutes because the place was crowded with people putting in orders for Cheusak cakes. It was ridiculous. Then the last day of school before Cheusak I was called into the owner of our school's office. I thought I was in trouble because he never has anything to do with us, but then it turned out that he was giving all the teachers gifts of wine for Cheusak. I was relieved and surprised at the same time. The gift was a set of two bottles of wine and a wine opener. Despite the shadiness of the school, they at least know how to appreciate their teachers on the Cheusak holiday. :) It was nice and I was more than happy to take the wine home. The holiday lasted for three days (I hear it usually lasts for longer, but not this year because it fell on a weekend.) So I spent a wonderful weekend relaxing, drinking my wine, and hanging out with my roomates.

Roomates
Speaking of my roomates, they are awesome. Moving into this 'hole in the ground' apartment with them was the best decision that I have made since coming to Korea. My one roomate Josephine, from England, is miss social butterfly. She seems to know everyone and has been my social connection to all of my latest friends. I was really worried for a while before because I wasn't making many friends. I don't know if it was because I was living on the edge of the city and away from everything, or what, but now I am happy to say that I have more than enough friends. :) I can hardly keep track of them all. It is fun to have things to do every weekend and people to hang out with now. The only downfall is the coming and going of people. It's inevitable here in Korea since most contracts are for a year and a lot of people leave after that, but it's still difficult for me. I hate making friends just to see them leave. It's like a little heart break each time it happens. I think I will only be able to stay here for 1 more year.

Future
I have begun thinking about my future again. I love Korea, but I think that after this year I will only come back for 1 more year. The lifestyle here is just unreal and I think I don't want to make it a habit. It's like being in college again, but having money. The work is fairly easy, yet definitely draining on some days. The money is amazing. The weekends are crazy...as is the night life. It's almost too good to be true. And I meet people here in their 30's who have been doing this for 5+ years. It's a fun thing to do, but I don't think that it is really living life. In fact, I feel like it's avoiding life and the real world. I don't have any responsibilities here other than showing up for work. Besides that, everything is taken care of for me. It's too easy. I almost feel like I'm cheating in a way. I think the longer I stay here, the harder it will be for me to have a life anywhere else. So after another year, I will leave and try to adapt back to the real world of more responsibilities. :) Until then though, I'll enjoy it here to the fullest!

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

23 going on 30

So really I'm only 23 going on 24, but this year I feel like I should be at least 30... It is the oddest thing I have ever felt. Since coming to Korea I have felt 100% responsible for myself for I think the first time in my life. I'm sure that has something to do with feeling 30, on top of many other things...

A lot of my friends here and the people that I work with are all in their late 20s or early to mid 30s. They are a bit more mature and have a somewhat different mindset than the people I am used to hanging out with back home. I think because I know that they are all in their 30s I feel like I should be too. So when I had my 24th birthday, all I could think was...I'm too young, I should be at least 30 by now. It was a weird birthday...maybe I thought too much than one should when they turn a year older. Contemplating life is interesting. Especially now since coming to Korea. For the first time in my whole life, I don't have a plan. Me, the master planner, now doesn't have a plan. I'm not sure how I feel about that either. I guess it's good because this way I truly live each day for what it is. But it's also bad, because I have no clue of what I want or what I will do with myself... I guess right now I am just floating along the river of life waiting for a current to sweep me this way or that way. While reminding myself that I'm only 24, and even though I feel older I'm not.

So my Birthday was good. My new roomates are amazing, they make my life now!! I came home from work Friday night to Josaphine (the British roomie) telling me that I needed to get ready because we were going out to bring in the first hours of my Birthday. So thats what we did. :) We went to a local bar and at midnight the DJ played a happy birthday song and Josaphine bought me a wonderful fruity, girly, frou-frou drink called 'alice in wonderland'. All night long I met new people, had great conversations, danced and truly enjoyed myself. Finally at about 5am I walked home and stopped on an overpass walk-way. I stood there for about an hour watching the cars whisp by and thinking about life. It was exactly what I needed. :)

The next day I met Heather at a waffle shop in my neighborhood for brunch. I ordered a cinnamon waffle piled high with cinnamon apples, whipped cream, and ice-cream. It was an amazing Birthday breakfast! It was also great to spend some time with Heather since we now life in separate parts of the city. We discussed life, adventures, birthdays, books and families. The conversation was perfect and long overdue. I spent the rest of the day by myself wandering the Itaewon neighborhood that I life near. I window shopped, tried on fun/crazy dresses and outfits, people watched, and just enjoyed the nice day by myself. :)

The night of my birthday I met the wonderful friends that I have made here so far at an Italian restaurant. We ordered dinner and enjoyed the company of each other over pasta and wine. It was fun to eat something other than Korean food for a day. Afterwards we went to a nice bar where I met a few more friends. Then later, the roomates and I headed to a different part of the city for a dj concert by the British group Artful Dodger. Rachel (my Ausie roomate) was able to get free tickets for us from her Korean friend. So we went to the club, inched our way to the front and danced to the Artful Dodger. At one point Rachel grabbed the singer when he walked by us on the stage. She yelled at him that it was my birthday, so he stopped the show and said happy birthday to me, haha it was great! So we danced and danced and finally it was 4am. By that time it was only Josaphine and me because we had lost Rachel and our other friend Charlotte. So Jos and I headed out into the street crowded with the youth of Korea and bought street food. Then we settled into the sidewalk along with all the Koreans enjoying our street food and bringing in the morning of the next day. Finally we got home and crashed. 

It was a grand Birthday!! :)